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How to Help: Show That You Think Education and Homework Are Important
Children
need to know that their family members think homework
is important. If they know their families care,
children have a good reason to complete assignments
and to turn them in on time. You can do many things
to show that your child that you value education
and homework.
Set
a Regular Time for Homework
Having a regular
time to do homework helps children to finish assignments.
The best schedule is one that works for your child
and your family. What works well in one household
may not work in another. Of course, a good schedule
depends in part on your child's age as well as her
specific needs. For instance, one child may do homework
best in the afternoon, completing homework first
or after an hour of play and another may do it best
after dinner. However, don't let your child leave
homework to do just before bedtime.
Your
child's outside activities, such as sports or music
lessons, may mean that you need a flexible homework
schedule. Your child may study after school on some
days and after dinner on others. If there isn't
enough time to finish homework, your child may need
to drop some outside activity. Let her know that
homework is a high priority.
You'll
need to work with your elementary school child to
develop a schedule. An older student can probably
make up a schedule independently, although you'll
want to make sure that it's a workable one. You
may find it helpful to write out his schedule and
put it in a place where you'll see it often, such
as on the refrigerator door.
Some
families have a required amount of time that their
children must devote to homework or some other learning
activities each school night (the length of time
can vary depending upon the child's age). For instance,
if your seventh grader knows she's expected to spend
an hour doing homework, reading or visiting the
library, she may be less likely to rush through
assignments so that she can watch TV. A required
amount of time may also discourage her from "forgetting"
to bring home assignments and help her adjust to
a routine.
Pick
a Place
Your
child's homework area doesn't have to be fancy.
A desk in the bedroom is nice, but for many children,
the kitchen table or a corner of the living room
works just fine. The area should have good lighting
and it should be fairly quiet.
Your
child may enjoy decorating a special area for homework.
A plant, a brightly colored container to hold pencils
and some favorite artwork taped to the walls can
make homework time more pleasant.
Remove
Distractions
Turn off the TV and
discourage your child from making and receiving
social telephone calls during homework time. (A
call to a classmate about an assignment, however,
may be helpful.)
Some
children work well with quiet background music,
but loud noise from the CD player, radio or TV is
not OK. One history teacher laments, "I've
actually had a kid turn in an assignment that had
written in the middle, 'And George Washington said,
"Ohhhhh, I love you."' The kid was so
plugged into the music that he wasn't concentrating."
If
you live in a small or noisy household, try having
all family members take part in a quiet activity
during homework time. You may need to take a noisy
toddler outside or into another room to play. If
distractions can't be avoided, your child may want
to complete assignments in the local library.
Provide
Supplies and Identify Resources
Have
available pencils, pens, erasers, writing paper
and a dictionary. Other supplies that might be helpful
include a stapler, paper clips, maps, a calculator,
a pencil sharpener, tape, glue, paste, scissors,
a ruler, a calculator, index cards, a thesaurus
and an almanac. If possible, keep these items together
in one place. If you can't provide your child with
needed supplies, check with her teacher, school
guidance counselor or principal about possible sources
of assistance.
For
books and other information resources, such as suitable
computer Web sites, check with the school library
or your local public library. Some libraries have
homework centers designed especially to assist children
with school assignments (they may even have tutors
and other kinds of individual assistance).
You
may want to ask your child's teacher to explain
school policy about the use of computers for homework.
Certainly, computers are great learning and homework
tools. Your child can use her computer not only
for writing reports and for getting information
through Internet resource sites, but for "talking"
with teachers and classmates about assignments.
In many schools, teachers post information about
homework assignments and class work on their own
Web sites, which also may have an electronic bulletin
board on which students can post questions for the
teacher and others to answer. (For more information
about using the Internet, see the U.S. Department
of Education's booklet, Parents' Guide to the Internet,
listed in the Resources section, page .) However,
you don't have to have a computer in your home for
your child to complete homework assignments successfully.
Some schools may offer after-school programs that
allow your child to use the school computers. And
many public libraries make computers available to
children.
Set
a Good Example
Show
your child that the skills he is learning are an
important part of the things he will do as an adult.
Let him see you reading books, newspapers and computer
screens; writing reports, letters, e-mails and lists;
using math to balance your checkbook or to measure
for new carpeting; doing other things that require
thought and effort. Tell your child about what you
do at work.
Help
your child to use everyday routines to support the
skills he is learning-for example, teach him to
play word and math games; help him to look up information
about things in which he is interested-singers,
athletes, cars, space travel and so forth; and talk
with him about what he sees and hears as the two
of you walk through the neighborhood, go shopping
at the mall or visit a zoo or museum.
Be
Interested and Interesting
Make
time to take your child to the library to check
out materials needed for homework (and for enjoyment)
and read with your child as often as you can. Talk
about school and learning activities in family conversations.
Ask your child what was discussed in class that
day. If she doesn't have much to say, try another
approach. For example, ask her to read aloud a story
she wrote or to talk about what she found out from
a science experiment.
Attend
school activities, such as parent-teacher conferences,
plays, concerts, open houses and sports events.
If you can, volunteer to help in your child's classroom
or at special events. Getting to know some of your
child's classmates and their parents builds a support
network for you and your child. It also shows your
child that his home and school are a team. |